I think this could also count as 'extremely stubborn' right?

[just2hands]

	Anika-Amadi Nuttel -- [adjective]: Extremely dominant
'How will you be defined in the Sexual Dictionary?' at QuizUniverse.com

Comments

[no-prey-remains.livejournal.com]

You really want me t' answer that one, darlin'? *grin* You dominate, I rebel, an' then...

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

*honestly curious* And then what?

I make you? How? Oh wait, the answer should be in this book, right? *starts flipping pages*

There has to be an answer in here someplace. *stares at picture on page* Wait, that? I'm supposed to tie you up then? Or is that before you rebel? ... I just don't understand. *thumps book closed.*

I need more study. Another book or three maybe.

[no-prey-remains.livejournal.com]

*shuts the book and shuts her up by kissing her* Don' need no book. Ain't that hard t' get a man's attention when he's already in th' mood.

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

Hey! That - *is kissed*

But, but. I understand the whole getting attention thing. But getting compliance when ... I should take lessons. Where is Pepper?

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

Hey! That - *is kissed*

But, but. I understand the whole getting attention thing. But getting compliance when ... I should take lessons. Where is Pepper?

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

Rope is good. Blindfold. *muses* Point isn't to actually make him comply. He could get loose at any time if he really wanted to. Point is sexual stimulation.

Big guy gets off on being dominated. Who knew?

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

*twists away from NPR and listens*

Really? Is that it? A mental stimulus, to add to the physical manipulation?

I understand now, I think. It's like a adding um, ingredients to a cake, for instance? Each layer builds up upon the last, with the culmination - the frosting that is, being the sexual act itself? Or would that be orgasm?

Do most men like being dominated, on the inside?

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

Not all. Some do, to different degrees. Moi, I am usually the one doing the tying up. With certain people, though, I don't mind. Roman, for instance.

And oui, mental stimulus. For the men that enjoy it...it can be very exciting.

If I'm not mistaken, yon shark gets off more on the idea that a woman would try to control him than he does on bondage gear. Wouldn't try tying him up, but I bet he'll let you hold him down.

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

So for you, it would have to be more of a, oh say - mutual respect thing, a trust thing before you would allow someone to do that? Where as for others they might simply be more stimulated by the perceived concept of dominant and possibly dangerous sex with a near-stranger?

I doubt that I'd enjoy bondage gear either. I just can't see myself in a collar, sorry.

Hmm, you think so? It would be quite a challenge, I think. Perhaps I should take up lifting weights just to make it more exciting.

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

Oui, trust. There aren't that many people I trust to have the upper hand like that.

Others might like the idea of being at a near-stranger's mercy, or the perceived loss of control allows them to explore things they normally wouldn't. *why yes, telepath-torturer vampire studies human behavior* It's an illusion. There's usually an agreed upon safe word among strangers. The word is said, and the play stops. And so it is the one being dominated who is truly in control. Not so with my toys, but this isn't about my habits...

*blinks at the collar comment, and remembers at the last minute to behave in the presence of the wereshark*

Oh I never said he'd make it easy.

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

Ah, I see. *thinking it over*

And what does Pepper say about that? I'm just curious

If it were easy, it wouldn't be nearly as exciting, right? There has to be a struggle, to aid in the illusion, and the ability to be comfortable in giving up the perception of control in the first place?

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

Oui, exactly. *wicked smile* For a virgin, you're a quick study. Big guy is going to have his hands full, I think.

Pepper is not a toy....yet...

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

I've spent my life studying *shrug* It's what I do. This is just another ah, subject that I am thinking of exploring. And if I'm going to learn, I should learn from the best, right? So when it comes to bondage and discipline... *blinks at him* What am I saying!

So Pepper gets a safe word then, if you and she were to play? Or do you do that with her?

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

*laughs* Ma petite, if you want to learn from the best, you should learn from Pepper. My students rarely survive. I do not deal in illusion, at least where that subject is concerned. I truly do keep the upper hand.

Non. If she were to wish play like that, she'd take her chances, like any other. But...she might live.

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

She knows about this stuff too? I mean, I know she knows about sex, regular sex and seduction and all. But she knows about this too?

Ah, I get it.

And I bet she does, I bet she would... she's like that. She's a little crazy on the inside. You know?

[adriengriffon.livejournal.com]

I would be very surprised if she didn't.

Oui. There's a line that BDSM doesn't cross. I cross it. Pepper is safer for you, ma petite. It would be a shame to deprive the world of such a promising young doctor.

Aren't we all? Some of us are just a little more open about it

[just2hands.livejournal.com]

Well, maybe if we teleconferenced classes. You forget, I've read those posts. I know what she does to her students too.

Deprive the - what? HEY!

Ok, thats true.